Displaying Christian Sermons by tag: marriage

Watch Jimmy Evans: I Discovered The Secret To A Lasting Marriage.  If you want the secret to a lasting marriage, then this is the video for you. Be inspired by Jimmy Evan's message of service as the secret to a lasting marriage. Find out why God calls you to more. Your marriage is something that Jesus can heal and WILL heal if you ask him for help and follow his teachings.

Watch Jack Hibbs Sermon: The War Against Marriage. There is a war being waged in our world against the God-designed institution of marriage. Christian husbands and wives need to stand strong in the battle and realize that the real enemy is Satan, not each other.

Jentezen Franklin (March-23-2024) Daily Devotional: Rebuilding your marriage (4).

“Many waters cannot quench love, nor can rivers drown it.” Song 8:7 NLT

You must be open with one another. You must be transparent, sensitive, responsive, and willing to trust one another. Stop and think about how you feel when the doctor is about to give you a shot. Your first reaction is to tighten up, right? Similarly, our hearts naturally tighten up after the pain of rejection, or betrayal, or neglect. It’s a reflex mechanism in the soul; a way we protect ourselves subconsciously. And it’s a great attribute anywhere else, except in marriage. If you don’t turn off this mechanism, you will close your soul. This is the state where you love the person and you still come home to them every night, but you are braced, apprehensive, and no longer present in the moment.

You have closed yourself off, for fear of disappointment and hurt. Marriage is an open covenant consummated by physical intimacy, which removes all barriers and celebrates the joy of having nothing between the two of you. And it’s difficult to attain and maintain such intimacy both emotionally and physically if you have experienced betrayal and disappointment. But there is good news. The central theme of the Bible is resurrection; that which is dead can live again. So if you have lost the closeness, you can get it back if you are willing to relax your soul and open your heart toward the other person. Solomon writes, “Love flashes like fire, the brightest kind of flame. Many waters cannot quench love, nor can rivers drown it” (vv. 6-7 NLT). If you seek God’s help and you are willing to work at it, you can rekindle your love and rebuild your marriage.

Jentezen Franklin (March-22-2024) Daily Devotional: Rebuilding your marriage (3).

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it.” Ps 127:1 NKJV

You must be willing to forgive the other person. Loving makes you vulnerable. When you give someone your heart, they can break it. A stranger or casual acquaintance could say something that would roll off you like water off a duck’s back. But when your mate says the same thing to you, it can stir up feelings of anger and resentment. No one stays married to anyone without some forgiveness involved. Think about it: Your relationship with God involves needing, asking for, and receiving His forgiveness. In the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus taught us to say: “Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.” Then He explained, “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you” (Mt 6:12, 14 NKJV).

The word “trespass” simply means “going where you have no right to go.” And we do that to each other in marriage. Familiarity breeds contempt. When you feel continually taken for granted by your mate, it can build up and explode into an argument. Trespassing includes infidelity, among other things. If you don’t practice forgiveness in little things, it makes it much harder to extend and receive grace during the crisis moments. The art of forgiveness requires letting go of perfection and performance and grasping hold of grace and gratitude. When the Bible says that a man must leave his father and mother (including his culture, background, and family language) and be joined to his wife (developing a new culture, background, and family language), they begin to bond together and become one (See Mt 19:5 NKJV). But this bonding takes a lot of time and work. It also calls for focusing on what’s good in your mate and forgiving the rest.

Watch Jimmy Evans: Gay Marriage. The marriage and family expert explains why redefining marriage is harmful to society.

Jentezen Franklin (March-21-2024) Daily Devotional: Rebuilding your marriage (2).

“You husbands must give honor to your wives.” 1 Pet 3:7 NLT

 Second, you must listen to each other. This requires time, patience, and focused attention. Too many couples give each other a monologue, without leaving room for genuine dialogue. This is where marriage counseling is effective. It forces both of you to slow down, interpret your spouse’s language, understand their feelings, and discover their needs. When a marriage breaks down, couples are often so busy trying to get their own point across and win the fight that they don’t listen for solutions and places of negotiation. Divorce would be less common if we would listen with open hearts rather than closed minds. Jesus pointed out that the law of Moses permitted divorce “because of the hardness of your hearts” (Mt 19:8).

This means their hearts would not melt to the level of understanding and place of negotiation for the relationship to work. Some couples find it simpler to write each other letters revealing their feelings as they relearn how to communicate at a deeper level. Counselors and marriage enrichment seminars use this technique, and sometimes it works wonders. By putting your feelings down on paper before expressing them, you get to ask yourself, “Is this how I really feel? Is this how I want to express my feelings? Am I saying too much? Or too little?” Unloading on your mate may be a catharsis for you, but what if it buries them? These are some of the questions you must ask in order to rebuild your marriage. And if you both pray and keep your hearts open, God will help you to do it.

Jentezen Franklin (March-20-2024) Daily Devotional: Rebuilding your marriage (1).

“The winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell.” Mt 7:27 NKJV

Today about 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. Sadly, that’s true whether you’re a Christian or not. Sometimes the reasons are circumstantial, such as a job layoff or a home foreclosure. Other times it’s relational, such as a betrayal of trust or an addiction to drugs and alcohol. If you’re committed to rebuilding your marriage, you must learn how to reconnect and work to restore what you once had. In order to accomplish this, you must both be willing to enter into the process and commit for the long haul. For the next few days, let’s look at four key areas. First, you must know the other person. It’s a mistake to try and figure out your spouse, put them in a box, and label them for the remainder of their lives.

Knowing someone is an art in progress, not a static science with unchangeable data. You must view your mate as a mystery who requires ongoing scrutiny and lifelong learning. The Bible says, “Treat your wife [and your husband] with understanding as you live together” (1Pe 3:7 NLT). In order to restore your marriage, take a new look at your partner. They may not be who you assumed they were—but neither are you. So you must allow room for each of you to evolve, and resolve! And be sure to include God in the process. Jesus said that a house built on the solid foundation of God’s Word will stand strong in the storm while others around it are falling apart (See Mt 7:24-27). So today begin the process by recommitting to God—and each other.

The Broken Borders of Marriage - Pastor Matt Hagee. Pastor Matt tells us that the family (built around the marriage relationship) is the foundation upon which society fails or succeeds, and yet our families are living in a state of brokenness. Learn how to maintain a healthy marriage.

TD Jakes - Sermon: No Breakup Or Divorce Staying Committed To Your Marriage

Jimmy & Karen Evans - Establishing An Emergency Relief Plan For My Marriage. We're Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving into the critical topic of having an emergency relief plan for your marriage. Drawing parallels to hurricane evacuation routes, we share personal insights on the importance of being prepared for crisis situations, even those that might seem less severe. We emphasize the impact of emotional decision-making on marriages and highlight the need for help and counseling. From pastors to trusted friends, we encourage you to build a support system and be accountable to others. This isn't just advice; it's our heartfelt call to action—reach out, seek help, and strengthen your marriage.

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